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This is to be expected many times.
STAY COOL. She is looking to YOU, the MAN, to show her that you are NOT PSYCHO, and ALSO that you are A SEXY, COOL, CONFIDENT MAN who does NOT give up at her natural defensive reaction. One of the things you can do to lessen her fear, is to approach her with a funny TEASE. It's hard to be scared and laughing at the same time. One of my favorite lines to ask a woman who is walking somewhere, *Hey where do you think you're going?* and no matter what she responds, tease her on it. Remember, it's not the line, you can come up with thousands of your own lines, it's the attitude you convey. TEASING also prevents you from looking like a desperate man trying to kiss up to her. Your BODY LANGUAGE conveys much of your message as well- if you are SMILING the ENTIRE time you are talking to her, she will feel that she already has you hook line and sinker, and so there is nothing left for her to work for - you've ROBBED her of THE JOY of trying to IMPRESS YOU |
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But here is the SECOND PART:
If you want to KEEP her *special*, you must STAY IN COMPLETE CONTROL. If she starts to complain without good reason, if she starts to act up, if she does ANYTHING that doesn’t feel right....chances are she is TESTING to see if you are STILL a man. She wants to see if you are STILL as masculine as when she MET you. Remember, with women, it's not so much your BODY that tells her you are a MAN...it's your MASCULINE DOMINANT BEHAVIOR. You must BLOW APART all her attempts to control you- and all her complaints and misbehaviors are attempts at controlling you. These misbehaviors and attempts at control by her are nothing more and nothing less than her TESTING your masculinity. If you always immediately SHOW her you are A MAN, and she will go back to treating you WELL. Allow me to add, that you must BLOW APART these tests from women with TOTAL CALM on your part. Part of testing you...is testing you to see if you LOSE YOUR MASCULINE COOL. |
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The joke about her watching the Flintstones for knowledge is GUTSY and CONFIDENT.. and FUNNY. Everything you do with a woman, must be combined with conveying that you are the most desirable man on the planet- confident, popular, successful, and worthy of trust. This does NOT mean to lie. It means to put your BEST FOOT FORWARD, through all the SUBTLE yet crucial nuances that convey you are the BEST. Listen, women prep themselves for HOURS with make-up themselves look the BEST that they can. Actually, it makes them look BETTER than they are, But nobody ever accuses women of being deceitful by wearing sexy clothing and makeup. If you are going to give a compliment to a woman, or if you are going to give trust to a woman, do it through the prism of being the most desirable man- i.e. let her EARN it from you, and then believe me, she will value it far more, since it came from someone who is selective. Okay, number three, establishing the connection. |
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